This weekend was amazing with a capital “A”. I was honored to be invited to my “ex”-nephew’s wedding. I very reluctantly use the term “ex” as my neices and nephews will always be such in my eyes…divorce or not. And to think my oldest nephew is old enough to be getting married certainly helped me realize my current state of…well…”old”. The ceremony was absolutely gorgeous…a wonderful outdoor celebration which more resembled a worship service than a wedding. I felt touched in ways one never expects from a wedding. The tears were plentiful from the moment Josh stepped up to the alter. All I kept seeing was the sweet little boy who was in my wedding so many years ago. Of course, I also had to suppress my chuckles over the memory of him disrupting our wedding ceremony because he was holding himself and very loudly proclaiming his need “to pee”. He has grown into a strong and amazingly handsome young man. And least we not forget the bride…she was absolutely gorgeous! They make a BEAUTIFUL couple.
While the ceremony was light, yet reverent, the reception was done in true Howard tradition, i.e….it was a “pah-tay”! Set outside under a massive white tent, the atmosphere was one of down-home elegance. It was finely catered but in keeping with the character of the bride and groom. Ribs, chicken and sliced pork with garlic potatoes, sauteed vegetables and field greens were served buffet style. Gorgeous wood carvings, lanterns and seasonal dried flowers adorned the white clothed tables. And the bar was open and happenin’. Add in a fantastic band and a partying group of people and you had the makings of a night to remember.
Here are a few of the random shots I captured with my point-and-shoot camera. I would love to show you pics of the bride and groom, but *sigh* I didn’t get any. These are the most random, crazy shots…I guess that’s what you get when you’ve had one vodka and cranberry too many.
A few Howard cousins:
Me and the mother of the groom, my ex-sister-in-law and good friend, Barbara:
A cutie groomsman (Colleen, this one’s for you!):
The bouquet/garter catching couple:
It was one of the best nights I’ve had in a very long time. It was a homecoming of sorts. A time of reconnecting and re-establishing lost family ties and friendships. I hope your weekend brought you as much joy as mine did me.